Why the European Wedding Aesthetic Is So Timeless
There’s something about European weddings—the old-world charm, lush gardens, stunning architecture, and slower, more intentional celebrations—that make them feel effortlessly romantic. From French chateaus and Italian villas to English countryside estates, these weddings embrace a balance of luxury and warmth that many U.S. couples dream of recreating. But here’s the good news: you don’t need to hop on a plane to plan a European-inspired wedding. With the right venue, décor, and mindset, you can achieve the look no matter where you are. (Hopefully I’ll be there to capture it all for you ;))
Step 1: Choose a Venue With Architectural Character
The venue is the foundation of a European aesthetic wedding. Look for spaces that have historical or architectural interest, like:
- Charming estates and manor houses: Even in the South, there are beautiful estates with sprawling grounds and classical facades. (Think The Swan House, Capitol City Club)
- Vineyards or gardens: These mimic the vineyard landscapes of Tuscany or the rose-covered gardens of England. (Chateau Elan, Montaluce Winery, The Lumpkin House)
- Venues with stonework, arches, or neutral palettes: Think limestone walls, wrought-iron gates, or neutral stucco exteriors.
Tip: If your venue is more modern, you can create European charm through draping, garden-inspired florals, and a muted color palette.
Step 2: Select Décor That Feels Effortless but Elevated
European weddings often feature less-is-more styling. They let the venue and natural setting shine with thoughtful, refined décor.
- Florals: Think loose, organic arrangements with greenery and seasonal blooms. Garden roses, olive branches, and peonies are perfect choices.
- Tablescapes: Long wooden tables with linen runners, taper candles, and soft-toned dinnerware create the quintessential European aesthetic.
- Textures: Incorporate natural materials like stone, linen, and wood. Avoid anything too shiny or over-styled.
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Step 3: Embrace the European Mindset
One of the biggest differences between weddings in Europe and the U.S. is the pace. European weddings often stretch over a full weekend, with long, lingering meals and intimate gatherings.
How to capture that feeling:
- Plan a welcome dinner or garden party the night before.
- Include a long seated dinner with multiple courses.
- Set up cozy lounge areas with vintage furniture so guests can relax and connect.
- Focus on experiences—live music, family-style meals, champagne toasts in the garden—over big “show-stopping” moments.
This approach creates a day (or weekend!) that feels personal and unhurried, just like the celebrations abroad.
Step 4: Hire Vendors Who Understand the Style
A cohesive European aesthetic depends on a team who understands the vision. Choose a planner, florist, and photographer who have experience with organic, timeless design.
📸 As a wedding photographer, I approach every wedding as if I were photographing my own. My style is film-inspired, romantic, and focused on capturing every fleeting detail—perfect for this type of event.
Ready to plan your dream wedding?
- View my Wedding Experience page
- Explore my Portfolio for European-inspired wedding imagery
- Contact me to discuss your plans
Final Thoughts
A European-inspired wedding isn’t about perfection; it’s about creating an atmosphere of romance, history, and connection. By focusing on the venue, curated details, and a slower pace, you can achieve a timeless look that feels like it could be set in the rolling hills of Tuscany or the English countryside—no passport required.
(You might also enjoy my blog on How to Choose the Right Wedding Photographer).
